30/07/2026
Care Is All I Have Left
Once I held your hand,
Now you gently hold mine.
Once I remembered every birthday,
Every smile,
Every story.
Now the days arrive like strangers,
And yesterday has slipped away.
I am living with Alzheimer’s.
I am living with dementia.
Please don’t say
I am no longer me.
I am still here.
My memories may fade,
But my heart still feels.
I may forget your name,
Yet I will always know kindness.
I may forget my home,
Yet I will always feel safe where love lives.
The world has become confusing.
Doors no longer lead where they should.
Clocks no longer make sense.
Faces become unfamiliar.
Words disappear before I can find them.
I am frightened…
Not because I am alone,
But because I cannot tell you.
Please be patient.
Don’t rush me.
Walk beside me.
See the person I have always been,
Not the illness I carry.
Don’t count the things I can no longer do.
Celebrate the things I still can.
A smile.
A laugh.
A song remembered.
A hand held.
A moment shared.
These are now my greatest treasures.
If I must travel this difficult road,
Let my journey end where my life began—
At home.
Surrounded by familiar walls,
The scent of morning tea,
The chair that knows my name,
The photographs that still remember me,
And the people whose love reaches my heart,
Even when my mind cannot.
Because home
Is where I still belong.
One day,
Alzheimer’s may take my memories.
Dementia may steal my words.
It may even hide the person you once knew.
But please…
Never let it take away
My dignity.
My humanity.
Or the care I deserve.
For in the end,
When memories have faded,
When names are forgotten,
When everything else has been taken away,
There is one thing that still remains.
Care.
A gentle touch.
A reassuring smile.
A familiar voice.
A loving heart.
Care is not just what people do.
Care is what people become.
Because the end that none of us wants
Will come to many of us.
And when that day arrives,
May none of us be remembered
As a diagnosis…
Or a number…
But as a life that was loved,
A story worth telling,
And a person who deserved
To remain safe,
To remain respected,
And to remain at home—
Surrounded by love,
Until the very last memory fades.