08/26/2024
I got home past midnight last night after spending a busy mum-making weekend in Katy with my dear friend Melissa . I spent the entire drive home trying to process and summarize my thoughts until I came across this picture that her oldest daughter Kate captured. Gratitude.
After Melissa’s husband passed, we knew she couldn’t possibly commit to a mum season this year with the unpredictability that comes with grief but wanted to give her the opportunity to keep her business going for future years. So I drove down and we cranked out all 20 of her orders within 48 hours while we cried, laughed and again…dreamed! None of this would’ve happened had Marshall not insisted she come rescue me when I was in need last season. There is also no way we could’ve accomplished all these orders without the help from these incredible makers, . These women rallied around last minute and generously donated braids and other components from their own inventory which cost both time and money! A tangible example of community over competition.
Homecoming mums may just be a frivolous Texas tradition for most, but for me and my peers it has been a life line and I couldn’t be more grateful for this business. It was my own therapy for years while Lennon was going through chemo, keeping my hands and mind occupied while we were in the hospital. It’s provided the ability to contribute financially for my family so my kids can partake in all the things. It has introduced me to some of the most genuine, talented and caring women that I’m blessed to call friends. The only people that truly understand the chaos, stress, mental and physical fatigue that comes with 80 hour work weeks for 3 months. I’m thankful for the vulnerability that comes with authentic friendships; where they allow you to come sit with them in their mess and darkest times.
And there’s no way any of it would be possible without my customers! I’m grateful for each of you who has allowed me to participate in your homecoming memories!! Truly means the world! 💓
