17/07/2024
14 WAYS TO CORRECT YOUR HUSBAND WITHOUT HURTING HIS EGO
1. LOWER YOUR VOICE
Don't shout at him..He is not your child. Although sometimes he acts like a child but yes you can correct him in a minimum volume tone.
2. DO IT IN LOVE
Correction should be done in love. Remember your husband is a human too. He makes mistakes and so are you.
3. NEVER EVER CRITICIZE YOUR HUSBAND IN PUBLIC OR INFRONT OF YOUR FRIENDS.
Stop criticizing him, especially infront of your friends or family, that is very degrading to men, rather correct in love, just whisper with a gently hug. Most will say it's constructive criticism. But girl, men have egos too.. there self esteem are easy to breakdown.
Correction is the act of offering better options.
Correction and criticism are never the same
4. LETS CUT THE SAYING βWHATEVER MY WIFE SAYSβ
Girl, YOU ARE NOT THE BOSS! And so does your husband.
Every decision should be talked and planned with the both of you.
If he said your cooking is a little salty, NEVER WALKED OUT OF THE TABLEβ¦instead appologize and offer other options. Give him sugar instead. π and impove your cooking by watching cooking videos on youtube.
5. PRAISE HIM FOR HIS ACCOMPLISHMENTS
If he puts the curtain rod straight or your wall decor in perfect angle, appreciate that.. you know how meticulous they are when it comes to putting wall decor. They really mean business when you request them to do that, with all the use of measuring tapes and torpedo level and rulers. An extra appreciation will make him love you more.
6. DON'T DO IT IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILDREN
Avoid correcting your husband in the presence of your children. Incessant correction of your husband infront of your children will make them disrespect him. Remember HE IS THE HEAD OF YOUR HOUSEHOLD.
7. DON'T CORRECT HIM IN PUBLIC
Avoid correcting your husband in public, it does not show you as a virtuous woman and will affect his self-esteem. If you do that in public, you will look like a mad dog without breeding.