Systemized & Loving It

02/15/2026

We all have taken the earth for granted. The earth is a big mess. Too much garbage is bring created and I think we waiting for govt and companies to do Something. Did you know that we as individuals can make a difference? Each one of us can make an impact on reducing waste. One tiny step at a time .
How can we do this ? By first becoming aware of our own personal surroundings. Becoming aware of how we using things and how much waste we as individuals are collecting in our own home . Also how much waste we contribute to our eating outside . Restaurants are not consciously working towards eliminating waste either. They too quick to bring to you food or drinks in throw away containers even if you eating in .
I went to IHOP in Orlando . I asked for tea, milk for tea lemon and hot water. I usually start with hot water and lemon as it’s good for body instead of a sweet artificial drink.
The waitress gave me these 4 in throw away containers. I was dismayed as now it would be 4 items going to garbage without a single thought as to what will happen to it and where it will end up. How long would it take for it to disintegrate. And the napkin was a throw away napkin. A real restaurant that caters to sit in customers should get real dinnerware. It’s more elegant and one enjoys being in a restaurant.
As I was aware of being concious about waste, I mentioned this to the waitress. As to why would a restaurant give food on throw away containers to sit down customers? It’s a total waste . Helped her be aware and I spoke up ( awareness is first step to change).
So when I went back next time to IHOP, I told the waitress that I did not want any straws when ordering , and my order to be in real washable dinnerware .
Being aware of the plight of the earth, I was able to prevent another 4 to 5 items being thrown out into garage after one use.
If I did that 4 times it will be 4x4 , at least 16 items prevented from being wasted unnecessarily. They means 16 items averted from going to waste .
Did you know it takes 200 years for just one straw to disintegrate into the earth and even Then a few pieces still linger on?
And did you know that as straw is light it ends up into the lakes and rivers and oceans ? It contaminates the waters and endangers sea life.
Each time you go out ask not to bring straws . Ask first real cutlery and dinnerware .
Make a concious change as of today to avoid throw away plastic and straws. Mention to the waitress that you want real dinnerware and avoid using straws at home as well..only sick people need straws . One person can make a difference.
Speak up and prevent waste.
Prevention is better than a cure.
Recycling is not a solution but prevention is a solution. Educate everyone you know.
Also talk to restaurant managers that you want cage free eggs . Even if they don’t have it that day, it will bring attention to what customers prefer. We need to keep speaking up. Caged hens lay stressed eggs leading to stressed and not healthy eggs. This leads to unhealthy human . Remember you are what you eat.
Take care for now. If you like my topic and info, forward it to all you know and ask them to like my post including yourself. Hope you will like it
Happy prevention day

03/12/2025

Let’s look at energy and thought
What is a thought.
It’s in the form of an image or words that run through your mind. Does it carry energy?
Yes
Let look at energy
Definition
It’s something that is in motion.
Thought is something that is constantly in motion
It moves energy from mind to emotion to action.
Thoughts can travel faster than an airplane .
Collective energy creates a powerful force that can change the world. There is scientific evidence to prove that.
To make it short and to the point, I want to talk about a topic where we can make a difference in this world by our thoughts.
Positive thoughts positive energy = positive results
Negative thoughts negative energy = negative results

So how can this help change thing’s around you?

One example of the day.
Have you noticed that when you think negatively your physiology changes. Your body reacts. Your energy changes and spirals downwards? Sometimes it can make you tired. Or sleepy or angry or sad ?
The body listens to thoughts and follows and creates
That kind of energy that is in your thoughts and puts it in motion.

The energy than vibrates outside of you and affects things and people around you. Even if your thoughts are silent the body vibrates it and creates an aura around you which radiates and connects to anything it reaches. People and things and trees and animals feel it and react to it. Silently or otherwise . This in itself is a very wide subject for another time as to how others can react to it that are near you at that time .

So how can you change the world by your thoughts?

If for example you watching tv and you see a criminal on tv. You think negatively towards that person.
Your thoughts collect with the same type of thoughts that is likely going on in similar minds watching the same channel . It also makes all the people watching the channel feel more negative inside. It also collects that negative energy with all watching same channel that feel negative at that same time and it reaches the criminal in a strong collective force . This energy will then also boomerang back to all those who sent out that energy towards that criminal when watching that channel.
There is saying that says “what goes around comes around “
So what happened?
Everyone who sent out that negative energy outwards received it back in a stronger force than their initial negative thought , making everyone connected to it feeling worse and more down than before. It will also affect people around them as well as their body will sense it . And the actions of that person will also show it either directly or indirectly.

Now reverse this :-

While watching the channel and looking at that criminal, what if the energy sent out was a prayer and love sent to the criminal so that that criminal’s dark soul gets enlightened by the love and prayers sent to that criminal . By the time The collective force of love and prayers reaches that criminal it has become a very powerful force, as millions of people are watching at the same time and feeling love and sending prayers outward to that criminal . What will happen then? This criminal without realizing it will start changing . It may be subtle or instant. Depending on the depth of how dark or lost the soul of the criminal is.
What is the benefit of doing this?

1. Person sending out love and prayers will receive this positive force coming back a million fold thus enlightening that person
2. Millions of souls will be affected and changed by that one thought in collective forces
3. The criminal will start changing for the better
Subtle or otherwise . This will change the criminals destiny which will change the outcome of their actions . This in turn will lessen the crime this criminal may commit in the future or not commit at all
4. This will lessen police force and police work
5. This will reduce money spent in keeping criminals in jails
6. This will reduce the need for more jails and reduce need for more guards.
7. This will mean less negative news for media to feed to the people
8. This means less negative reactions by people watching the news

All these changes are a ripple effect by just one single thought that reached out to like thoughts and collectively made a difference in the universe and in the people thinking that one thought and person receiving that one thought .
This goes with everything
Everything starts with a thought. It has a ripple effect and can be very powerful.

That is how prayers work. In fact every thought than is a prayer isnt it? Good or bad.

The choice we need to make at every moment is:-

What thought are we thinking each moment ?
Sonething to think about !

03/11/2025

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It will free up your time. You will spend less waste less. So message me if interested

11/05/2024

If everyone would just keep pets in doors and if outside to watch them closely and be Ruth thrm at all times. Too many coyotes and cat thieves and people who don’t like animals will take thrm and displace them .
I see a post every 1/2 or 1 hr about a cat getting lost not coming back home. Pets are unpredictable and to trust that they will always stick to their territory is like asking a kid to stay outside in same area everyday. Pets are like kids they don’t always follow rules and things can spook them so their survival mode kicks in and they run. And then you look for them. But where do you look they are not like tall humans that you can see easily. There are bushes and hidden areas they can be any where. Yesterday I thought I should drive around and see where they might be. I saw small forest area but big enough for cats to hide
I saw small hidden areas where one would have to go inch by inch to search.
Is it really worth letting cats go out on their own and expect them to obey rules of staying nearby? Is it really worth losing a pet and not knowing where they are ? It takes just one instant and they gone. It breaks my heart
When will people realize that pets don’t always know what is good for them
Please keep pets indoors and take them for walks with a strong leash That goes around their body not just around their neck. PLEASE .

09/18/2024

How do we make this earth a better place than we find it? This is the theme for today
Each day we live, we leave a trail of change positive or negative. We do not realize it but we do
How?
1. By our thoughts, actions and what we pay attention to and what we speak and how we speak.
Everything is energy. We all are energy. We share the energy with everyone we meet or touch. Whether with eyes or speech or hands or legs. Yes legs. When we walk what are we walking on?
We don’t notice an ant hill or an ant that could be crossing on the floor we walk on. We sometimes crush the ant hill or an ant. How many times do you think we do this? I have no idea. Sometimes I am aware so I look down When walking. Sometimes I am rushing or busy in my head so I don’t look. And sometimes I remember so I say a prayer for all ants or insects I have hurt knowingly or unknowlingly .
I pray before I eat for all souls that feed me. From time of inception from the ground up to the time till ends up on the table.
So this is one way to create change
2. When I see a car stranded I pray for person and car that it gets home safely. When I see a person struggling to walk or on wheel chair or has physical issues, I pray for that person in passing. When I see a person driving an old rusted car, I pray they get enough money to car a better car. Or I see a battered house I do the same.
Awareness is first step to change in the universe.
I see news( I Don’t look for it, it’s at banks, hospitals drs offices just about everywhere they put cnn or news channel). these places need to change channel and put on comedy shows ir soft healing music. (I don’t have cable for that reason as it’s a waste of money as too many repeats ) and if I watch someone got hurt I pray for the souls involved.

Instead of focusing on negative news, don’t watch or say a prayer for people concerned. Even the thieves and criminals. If we pray for their souls that the universe sends light in their hearts, then they will not repeat the same act and the world will become a better place.
Why condemn or send hate to those who are lost souls? They will do more of same. Isn’t it better to turn on the light in a place where there is darkness? Where there is light there is no darkness. Darkness is just the absence of light . This way we save money in jails and courts. Doesn’t that make more common sense? Remove the offense not the offender. We don’t know what made them do what they did. We don’t condone their actions and we don’t judge. We just pray that the lost soul be showered with Gods light then there won’t be any offense. Everybody needs love . Where there is love there there is no room for hate.
3. If you see someone driving and cutting you off, send thst person love and forgiveness and not anger or feel frustrated. Hate begets hate. Love transcends hate and negative behaviour and turns into love.
This will help that persons energy change. You won’t see it but it will change. Whether it’s instsnt or later is for universe to decide. Just keep sending love wherever you lay eyes on or thought.
It will change you as well, for the better.
This is all for now. Have a good day

08/10/2024

FORGIVE ME, MOMMY 😢🐾…
I was there where you left me for two whole days. Sleeping right on the side of the road. I was terrified of the noise from the cars but I did not move.
Last night one of those cars stopped and she got out. She invited me to lunch but I said no. She invited me to come sleep at her house and I also said no. I tried to explain to her that I was waiting for you but she wouldn’t listen. She pulled out a leash and said I couldn’t stay there any longer. I bit her several times and ended up peeing on myself as I growled and cried! She didn’t understand that she was separating me from you! She took me against my will and we drove off! I was so sad because I knew you were going to be worried. We ended up at her house.
I kept screaming hoping you would hear me but you never came. I vomited because of my nerves, feeling so sick. I kept telling her I had to go back because you were going to think I abandoned you when you saw I wasn’t there! I, who love you with all my heart and soul have not stopped crying since we separated a few days ago. I want you to know, I would never do that to you.
I don’t know where you are now or why you stopped the car and left me there. Surely you had something very important to do. Can you come find me now, mommy?
Today I ate because my tummy was hurting. I also slept on a very soft bed. And by accident I also wiggled my tail a bit. I’m so sorry, please forgive me. She’s just being really nice to me. She said I could stay forever. She’s calling me Savannah, but I already have a name. When you pick me up you can tell it to her. You’ll see how surprised she’ll be when you explain to her that this was a big mistake.
Because mommy, you’re coming back for me, right 😢🐾?
Author unknown 🐾🐾
“Pets are not disposable when we don’t want/need them anymore. They are a lifetime commitment. They are family! Thank you so much to everyone who adopts and rescues them until their last loving breath. Because of you this world is a better place.”
Savannah, rescued by Pet Search on February 1, 2021.
She was adopted by her Pet Search foster family Carlie and Jamie.
Credits goes to the respective Owner ~ (I know people get in circumstances that they feel they need to re-home their pets, but to be ditched is unforgivable) Thank God for people that care 💕

08/05/2024

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03/11/2024

I have learnt that it is very important to know yourself and your limits. Us Women especially have been taught that we need to nurture others above ourselves. So when we learn to say no, somehow we have done something wrong. And people around us try to make us feel responsible for their problems or for being stuck in a situation that they put themselves in with their own actions . If you offer them help they will be very nice and if you say not now they get angry. We all have limits and boundaries . Women who are not taught what these boundaries are, will put themselves on the line and go beyond their capacity to help. So then over time when they realize that they have limits and can’t keep giving whenever someone calls, the people who they have helped before, turn on them and become mean. They get angry and make it sound we are being inconsiderate . WOW that was a wake up call right there. How is saying no I can’t help you today being inconsiderate.

Truth is we all humans teach others how to treat us. Mostly women teach people that they are supposed to be caregivers to whoever asks them. And available 24/7. So when one day if one wakes up and realizes that hey I can’t keep doing this my time is valuable as well, then the person who has asked for help will turn on her and become mean in whatever way they can to get you back in line and say ok I will help .
It takes courage to say no and be able to stand one’s ground and not feel guilty. Every human is capable of help themselves 95% of the time.
We all have boundaries and limitations.
It’s ok to say no. Especially when the other person does not respect your time and keeps you waiting and waiting once you show up and does not use the time given to get the help they asked for. Instead keeps doing their OTHER CHORES while you there waiting to help them to finish with the help they asked for.
It took me a few of those waiting games to realize that this person has no respect for my time and expects me to sit and wait till she is ready to use my help for what she asked for. Some people are so warped up in their own world of being BUSY they cant see what they doing to others and that they are entirely responsible of the way their life is. Instead
they constantly complain and blame everyone else for the way things are and don’t even let you get a word in edgewise .
So women, (men and children too) learn your limits, respect your own time , speak your truth with kindness and start teaching others how to treat you. If you love yourself you won’t feel guilty to say no if you can’t do it. Help others yes, but if it’s within your own limits to do so. If not say no politely and dont allow others to make you feel guilty. It’s difficult at first but practice it and send a prayer to those you can’t help. God does not tell us to wear ourselves down and get sick. Guilt is a waisted emotion.
Anger is a way to keep people at bay
Blaming others for our dilemma is telling others what we are. Every action we take is our own responsibility of the outcome. Take responsibility for your own actions and if you make a mistake own it and forgive yourself and move on. No blame. Correct and continue . Learn from the mistakes of yours and also learn from other peoples mistakes.
Stay away from people who always talk negative it will wear you down send them a prayer but stay way .
Sometimes it difficult to stay away if they person lives nearby or is a relative or a friend. Then just stay calm and be quiet and speak less around them. Have to accept them for what they are and just be aware that it is all about them not about you.
Try not to take there lash backs personally as you will get a few of those over time . Just know it’s not about you, it just how they are
Work on strengthening your belief in yourself
I love to listen to Dr Wayne Dyer, he was amazing . Read his books and listen on u tube he has a lot of knowledge that can help.
Hope this helps someone change their lives by starting to learn to love themselves and know that we all have limits .