09/06/2022
Ha, don't be fooled by this innocently looking angel face!
This gorgeous fluff-ball named Halo is incredibly intelligent. She knows what she wants and has been 'testing' me from the day she arrived.
Friends of mine asked me to take care of her for a couple of months and it has been quite an experience from day one.
We have been discovering each other's boundaries, habits and needs.
Same as in with human beings:
π§© with any person you can't just assume but have to discover what are their needs and wants, and
π§© teach in return about yourself
With Halo, for instance:
π₯ First two nights she woke me up at 1am and was squealing at the leash. A-a-as if she was used to being walked in the middle of the night. Right! She... was... bluffing! Thank God, I didn't give in. And now we are sleeping soundly through the night with her snoring her heart out till morning.
π₯ The other day, I had the front door opened. I was doing something and suddenly felt someone licking my ankle. When I turned around I was caught by surprise. It wasn't Halo but... a cutest cocker spaniel puppy. I picked him up, went outside and found the neighbour who lost him. Later, when Halo came to that spot she started sniffing the rug harder than a vacuum cleaner sucking it clean. Then she gave me 'the look' and went into the furthest corner. She pouted at me for at least half an hour thinking that I was playing with another dog. Got it: all my attention must be given solely to you, Your Highness.
π₯ Without trying something out first, purely based on my assumption, I bought her a few toys. But she looked at me as if I was a simpleton! Halo's only interested in 'physical touch' and 'quality time', that is, being brushed, petted and walked. Oh, food and snacks of course. So, I guess, it makes 'acts of service' her 3rd love language.
π₯ I've learnt that she enjoys taking new routes. So, I strive to walk with her into different directions.Β
π₯ In return, she has learnt thathat I want to do writing in the mornings, so, she patiently waits for me till 8ish am to go for a walk.
In any relationship, it takes attention and effort β€