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Fidelity might be the F-word of education.My first year of teaching, my district adopted a new reading curriculum.At the...
05/30/2026

Fidelity might be the F-word of education.

My first year of teaching, my district adopted a new reading curriculum.

At the training, I heard two phrases over and over:
“Read the blue words.”
“Teach with fidelity.”

I didn’t even have students sitting in front of me yet, and I remember wondering:

What happens when the lesson doesn’t fit the learner?

The trainers eventually acknowledged that the curriculum was designed to meet the needs of the “average” student.

But here’s the thing.

I’ve never taught an average class.

I’ve taught students who needed more support.
Students who needed more challenge.
Students learning English.
Students carrying trauma.
Students whose curiosity took us somewhere unexpected.

And yet, throughout that first year, instructional walkthroughs often focused on fidelity checks:
Was I following the script?
Did I read the blue words?
Was I on the prescribed scope & sequence?

What those checks didn’t always capture was the professional decision-making happening in real time.

The adjustment.
The scaffolding.
The extension.
The responsiveness.

I believe deeply in educational research.

But I don’t believe that a publishing company citing that research knows my students better than I do.

Research requires fidelity so we can understand what works.

Students require responsiveness because they are human beings, not research conditions.

The goal isn’t abandoning evidence-based practice.

The goal is using evidence-informed practices while remaining responsive to the learners sitting in front of us.

Because curriculum should serve students.

Not the other way around.

05/29/2026

Have you ever planned a lesson carefully, scaffolded it thoughtfully, and still watched students walk into the room and choose not to participate?

This week, a novice teacher shared that exact frustration with me.

The lesson made sense. The supports were there. But students found ways to disappear.

So instead of focusing on the lesson, we focused on the invitation.

Do students feel seen when they enter?
Do they feel like they belong?
In the first two minutes, are they being called into learning rather than called out for behavior?

Engagement doesn’t begin when students start working.

It begins when students decide it’s safe to enter the experience you’ve designed.

A few intentional shifts created enough momentum for students to lean in more during the very next class period.

Not every student.
Not every moment.

But momentum matters.

👇 What is one thing you’ve done to help students feel invited into learning from the moment they walk through the door?

One of the biggest reasons teachers are exhausted right now is this:They are carrying both the emotional and cognitive l...
05/29/2026

One of the biggest reasons teachers are exhausted right now is this:
They are carrying both the emotional and cognitive load of the classroom.

You’ve been in the room where students are waiting instead of initiating, group work has one student do everything, or participation that feels forced or compliance oriented. What’s happening when you feel like you’re working harder than anyone else in your classroom?

Engagement strategies should not create more performance pressure for teachers. They should redistribute thinking, ownership, and participation back to students.

If you’ve ever ended a day feeling like you dragged learning across the finish line alone, you’re not the only one.

05/02/2026

I’m grateful for the mark teachers make and the mark students make on their teachers. Sometimes we feel connected to loved ones we miss abstractly and other times we receive it directly. Hearing new information about my dad from one of his professors was a really special gift this May!

Spring in Minnesota will humble you.One day it feels like sunshine and new life.The next day there’s snow in the forecas...
04/07/2026

Spring in Minnesota will humble you.

One day it feels like sunshine and new life.
The next day there’s snow in the forecast.

Honestly?
That’s what grief feels like too.

In today’s episode, I’m sharing about the loss of my dad, the grief that still sneaks up on me, and the quiet strength of holding both/and:

Grief and gratitude
Longing and joy
Sadness and hope

Because hope isn’t pretending winter didn’t happen.
It’s believing spring will keep returning.

🎧 Listen now to the newest episode of 3 with Bri

SpringReflections

Sometimes schools offer support that makes things feel better for a moment — but doesn’t actually change what teachers a...
04/06/2026

Sometimes schools offer support that makes things feel better for a moment — but doesn’t actually change what teachers are carrying.

A morale boost is not the same as a usable plan. Teachers do not just need encouragement. They need support that addresses the root issue: what’s not working, why students are disengaging, and what to do next.

Surface fixes fade fast.
Real support changes the conditions of teaching.

That’s the kind of work I care about.

Why do we do what we do?On this episode, I’m sharing a gentle introduction to the Enneagram a why it has been such a mea...
04/06/2026

Why do we do what we do?
On this episode, I’m sharing a gentle introduction to the Enneagram a why it has been such a meaningful tool on my life, relationships, and teaching.
🎧 Listen now on 3 with Bri -Spotify or Apple Podcasts What number are you on the Enneagram?

Gratitude embodies an abundance mindset and there is no scarcity when it comes to people who are supporting me! Some hav...
03/30/2026

Gratitude embodies an abundance mindset and there is no scarcity when it comes to people who are supporting me! Some have known me since birth and called me by childhood nicknames, while others met me as a new teacher with my maiden name. Some I have cried with, some I have celebrated, and others I just met a week ago. But community is one of my core values and I love the community life has brought me and I have fostered. When life hits rough waters, these lovely people steady the boat. When life hits a big milestone, they are there to celebrate! So here’s the outward gratitude that I feel everyday for the amazing people represented in this post.

This is the work I care most about! I help teachers move from powerlessness to purposeful engagement. Because reaching s...
03/29/2026

This is the work I care most about!

I help teachers move from powerlessness to purposeful engagement.
Because reaching students without burning out is not solved by trying harder. It’s solved by designing differently.

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